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This is a digest of messages posted to: Bipolar Disorder Support Group.Blood test resultsBlood test resultsMessage #9: Blood test results Posted by: EternalDeath Date: Jul 28, 2009.Try making Gatorade or Poweraide or Pedialite popsicles!!! I bet that'd taste a lot better. Blood test resultsMessage #10: Blood test results Posted by: hereinmyhead Date: Jul 28, 2009.Ouchy! You poor ladies with tmj. I feel bad for you all. My sister has it and it makes her so miserable sometimes. She's had to have braces twice. With the 2nd time they had to do horrible mean things to her poor jaw first. My gma had it too. Horrible pain. BTW, I love gatorade. Esp. the pink ones. If I had to drink stuff for salt though, I'd be having some tomato juice too...with vodka in it. can ya do that?Blood test resultsMessage #11: Blood test results Posted by: bpcookie Date: Jul 28, 2009.Susie Q, Tomato juice with vodka LMAO. Oh yes, my dr. would love that one. "Dr., I just dont understand why my sodium is low, Ive been drinking tomato juice with vodka every single day" LOL. she would flip out. Oh btw honey, dont forget I will be in Laughlin in a weeks time.Blood test results Message #12: Blood test results Posted by: hereinmyhead Date: Jul 28, 2009.Oh wow! Why did I think Oct??? That is awesome!!! Where are you staying? I'm so excited!!!Blood test resultsMessage #13: Blood test results Posted by: bpcookie Date: Jul 28, 2009.we are staying in the Tropicana, it used to be the Ramada Inn.Bipolar Disorder Support GroupDaily Numbers and QuoteInitial Message Posted by: Chris_WebMD_Staff Date: Jul 28, 2009.Today's Inspirational Quote: "The past is a great place and I don't want to erase it or to regret it, but I don't want to be its prisoner either."
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This is a digest of messages posted to: Depression.Bipolar Disorder Support Groupbills!Initial Message Posted by: mc1003 Date: Jul 29, 2009.ok, for the fist time in a long time on the 7th of this month i went to one of those utility payment centers to pay my electric bill cuz it was getting close to being shut-off and i already had an extension. come to find out those people didn't even pay the bill!!!!! and not only that i go there and there are like 5-7 other people there for the same reason, my MIL & SIL both paid ALL of their bills there and not 1 got paid, come to find out there's a long list of people with the same complaints.....i gotta talk to them and see what happened with th eir bills tomorrow.... well i had a pretty bad night last night, and not a terrific day today, and i tell you guys i went down there with my guns loaded I just totally went off on them, asked them where was our ( mine & other people there) money???? and their excuses or "confirmation numbers" weren't gonna get our bills paid or keep our utilities from being shut off i got on my phone and called everyone in town, i called my city council person, i checked their business license, i called to police-who inform me that's a civil matter for small claims court, and tomorrow at 8am when they open i'm calling the BBB...... I made such a scene, in a dignified way of course, told bf if he didn't hear from me he better meet me there when he got off the freeway from work, and he did, BUT i got our bill paid, i really think they wanted to get me out of there, i took some of their business cards and wrote the phone number for the local better business bureau on them and was telling everyone to call and file a complaint, because that is a bunch of crap, people save all of their money, all the money they have to pay their bills and these people don't pay them???? oh and get this, they can't even tell me where the money is i'm thinking "Gee, that sure is a nice phone you got there mister" well see we take the money and we give it to this other person and they pay the bills WHAT!!!!??? OHHHH NOOOOO i don't think so.....yeah i got my electric bill paid and called the company to verify BEFORE i left that place, but i'm so pissed, what about all those other people??? one lady who only spoke spanish said she was ther for the FOURTH time,for her bills she paid in JUNE, i don't think they'd wanna see me have to go down there 4 times.... one of the the "co-owner's" said they were still trying to work some "kinks" out of a new system.....i told him then why don't you stop taking peoples money until you get your "kinks" worked out, cuz that's just not right at all, he said oh no i can't do that....of course not, cuz then the thief would have much thinner pockets, HMPH@!!!!! when we left my kids told me omg mom you were so mean, and i said yeah right, those so&so's are stealing from people and they can't do that, it's very wrong well at the very least i got our bill taken care of, and i helped a few strangers cuz they all got their bills taken care of while i was there too, lol, bastards, and hopefully i'll be able to stop these peo ple if i can find the right person to complain to....awwwwwww i really needed a place to focus my anger on, and they just so happen to deserve it calling tdoc bef apptInitial Message Posted by: hereinmyhead Date: Jul 29, 2009.Does it look bad to call your tdoc before your next scheduled appt? I just saw mine on monday, but have wanting to call her the last 2 days to tell her about how much i've been freaking out over things i can't stop thinking about and not being able to relax or sleep, but i dont think it's really an emergency and dont want to be a pest. On the other hand, it's not going to get any better over the rest of the next week, and just from yesterday to today it's gotten dramatically worse. Adde d to that, I'm also itching and having crying fits what feels like every other minute and am so tired. i try to sit and write, and that lasts a little while, but i can't do it for long, then i try and do something else and it all starts again. i can't make it stop. Jon said if i dont call her that he's going to, but i think he should stay out of it, but then i kind of want him to do it for me because i cant make myself even though maybe i should. I dont want to make her mad and not want to see me anymore as a patient. I've already had to wait a year to even get into therapy. i cant make a decision about what to make for lunch, let alone something important.calling tdoc bef apptcalling tdoc bef apptMessage #1: calling tdoc bef appt Posted by: hope7951 Date: Jul 29, 2009.It depends on what outcome you are looking for. Do you want to have a phone session? She's a tdoc so she can't give you meds. Do you want to move up your appointment? Decide what you'd like from her before you make the call. Joyecalling tdoc bef apptMessage #2: calling tdoc bef appt Posted by: hereinmyhead Date: Jul 29, 2009.My pdoc is in another town, so in order to reach her, tdoc can make a call on my behalf. She told me on monday that if i decided that's what i thought i needed that she would do it. I keep telling myself that if my problems were something to worry about than my pdoc would have asked me if i had these problems in the first place if there were such a thing and since she didn't then they can't be a big deal.calling tdoc bef apptMessage #3: calling tdoc bef appt Posted by: hereinmyhead Date: Jul 29, 2009. My pdoc asks about voices, but not about just my own voice or just plain noise, and i've told all of them lots of times about the bugs, but i dont know if i tell them in a way so they understand how bad it's gotten. i'm sure i dont say it right.Daily Numbers and QuoteDaily Numbers and QuoteMessage #9: Daily Numbers and Quote Posted by: snowyowl33 Date: Jul 29, 2009.4..Daily Numbers and QuoteDaily Numbers and QuoteMessage #5: Daily Numbers and Quote Posted by: hereinmyhead Date: Jul 29, 2009.My body feels like a big fat '0' and taking dilaudid, but my brain is on 9 and firing like a machine gun.Daily Numbers and QuoteMessage #6: Daily Numbers and Quote Posted ... read more »
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This is a digest of messages posted to: Depression.Bipolar Disorder Support GroupAdult Son is bipolarInitial Message Posted by: Zeniba Date: Jul 30, 2009.My adult son has been diagnosed as bipolar. I joined this discussion to see if someone could help me cope with his disorder. I want to do anything I can to help him.Adult Son is bipolarAdult Son is bipolarMessage #1: Adult Son is bipolar Posted by: hope7951 Date: Jul 30, 2009.Welcome. How old is your son? When was he diagnosed? What treatment is he on? How long has he been on treatment? Bipolar is a physical genetic illness that responses well to treatment wit h mood stabilizers and other complimentary meds supported by cognitive behavioral therapy and on-going self-care including a balanced life _style_ _base_d on 1/3 sleep, 1/3 challenge, 1/3 relaxation with a good diet, exercise, low stress, scheduling, and always handling any problem at the lowest level possible. A very good book to help is "Bipolar for Dummies" by Candida Fink MD. You should send your son here to talk instead of you. JoyeAdult Son is bipolarMessage #2: Adult Son is bipolar Posted by: Zeniba Date: Jul 30, 2009.Thank you for your reply. My son is almost 40. He was diagnosed 3 years ago. He has been on treatment since that time. He has had several meds. I remember cymbalta, resperidol, tegrotol, seroquel, and there are others. I do see this is a discussion board for those who are bipolar, not for family members. Can you possibly direct me to a board f or family/loved one members?Adult Son is bipolarMessage #3: Adult Son is bipolar Posted by: slik_kitty Date: Jul 30, 2009.you are welcome to post here. your son coming here would be good for him. i applaud you for wanting to learn about bp to help your son. is he taking his meds as he should? does he see a pdoc and t on a regular basis?Adult Son is bipolarMessage #4: Adult Son is bipolar Posted by: hope7951 Date: Jul 30, 2009.I didn't mean to imply you were unwelcome just that your 40 year old would benefit most in becoming part of this support community himself as allher are in the many stages of bipolar from newly diagnosed to 30 years of living with it so we could identify with whateve he is going through. For those with bipolar, opening up to those who really understan d is a rare safe place to be. What you think he is feeling and what he is feeling are two different things. I was just trying to afford him the most help. Joyebills!bills!Message #1: bills! Posted by: slik_kitty Date: Jul 30, 2009.awww hugs michelle. bipolar can be good for some things. bills!Message #2: bills! Posted by: hereinmyhead Date: Jul 30, 2009.LOL michelle, I had almost the same thing happen to me a couple years ago when i was living in Vegas, and I acted (almo st) like you, only not quite as dignified. I acted the fool and cussed them out. I DID manage to get mine and 2 others taken care of out of near rage by embarrassing the guy half to death, but i couldn'[t stop myself i was so mad. LIVID even. I relentlessly called and bugged them every month after that until we moved after that too. I'm sure they were more than happy to see me go.bills!Message #3: bills! Posted by: mc1003 Date: Jul 30, 2009.LOL, susie, so funny yeah everytime they came out of hiding in their "office" i dug into them, lol, i was so mad i was shaking, i wanted to pound their faces in, but of course, that would do just no good at all, so instead i humiliated and questioned them relentlessly until the co-owner came out of hiding and took care of our bills, i feel pretty good today, lolBipolar Disorder Support Groupdr apptInitial Message Posted by: white_tiger31 Date: Jul 30, 2009.I went to the headache dr today and he's trying something different i cant remember the exact name but its a nerve blocker 4 injections 2 in my neck and 2 in the back of my head so far so good i did have to take a muscle relaxer and ibu 800 right after but i think it was just from the injections but i have taken 2 naps and have woke up pain free so im being optimistic about this if it does work tho i will have to go back every few months and have them done but that is fine with me i will be able to cut my pills that im taking down woohoo i really hope this works hugz and love to all wendy Family History (triggers)Family History (triggers)Message #1: Family History (triggers) Posted by: slik_kitty Date: Jul 30, 2009.I got it from both sides too. it makes it that much harder to avoid it.Family History (triggers)Message #2: Family History (triggers) Posted by: hope7951 Date: Jul 30, 2009.Me too. That's why I participated inthe Johns Hopkins Bipolar Genetics Study in 2007 to try and pinpointthe gene cluster. It also means it is an illness that is 70% physical and only 30% environemental. Identical twin studies show that 70% will develop the illness so there is 30% that is environmental that can make a difference. I think it is especially important to know you history also becuase those of us who come from bipolar families may have alsobeen ex posed to bazaree behavior and traumatic evnets that other children don't have to deal with from day one. These actually are the things you need to think about to separate you from your illness, family and physical illness - all of which are not only not you but have nothing to do with you and are not under your control, fault, guilt or blame. That's important to fully understand. 10 years ago the true genetic physical nature of this illness was not understood. You are not your illness. JoyeFamily History (triggers)Message #3: Family History (triggers) Posted by: bpcookie Date: Jul 30, 2009.Hi Michelle sweetie pie. Its hard to find mental illness in my family history. I dont know my mothers side of the family too well. I dont believe my mother has any problems with mental illness. I do know that my sister has problems with depression, but thats about all I know. On my mothe rs side of the family there is a few alcoholics. Its extra hard to trace anything on my fathers side since he was adopted, he has NO records at all. But he is an alcoholic. My grandfather had diebetes, so that would explain my hypoglysemia. Get this, on my step mothers side of the family, they are totally disfunctional. Im so glad that Im not related to them by blood. They have some major problems. My aunt divorced her husband and married her brother in-law. One cousin married another cousin and my step brother married his step sister. Now that is totally messed up. eeeeekkkk. big hugs and muahs to you dahling CookieFamily History (triggers)Message #4: Family History (triggers) Posted by: hereinmyhead Date: Jul 30, 2009.I can go back a long ways with family history, but with mine, there were many that were just called things like "insane" or "mad" bec ause labels like "bipolar" didn't exist yet. On my dad's side, both his parents had a mental illness and at least 2 of his uncles that I know of. 2 of my cousins on that side commit suicide and 2 other of my uncles. There were lots of people who just "vanished" that nobody knows what happened to. Going back even farther, I have seen old census records where family members are listed where there has been family members listed and at least one is checked as being "insane". Some even older family bible records and published histories that are in books and even older records of deaths will label somebody as being "mad". This goes back over 200 years in this country and even further if I trace it back to European ancestors. This continues throughout my father's direct lines. Lots of mental illness and suicide.Family History (triggers)Message #5: Family History (triggers) Poste d by: mc1003 Date: Jul 30, 2009.wow, this is all very interesting to me i ... read more »
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This is a digest of messages posted to: Bipolar Disorder Support Group.Adult Son is bipolarAdult Son is bipolarMessage #5: Adult Son is bipolar Posted by: bildo66 Date: Jul 31, 2009.Be there for him... dont get mad cuz hes freakin and realize he has this illness.... my mom did at first but now she understands after reading up on the disease that its just the way we are... my dad still thinks it is all in my head lol kinda is but just be there thats most important after i got on my new meds i started to give my mom my money so i didnt overspend and buy things i shouldnt she has been the biggest help 1 could have and without her support id be back on the 5th floor or dead i assume .... i hate asking for help so sometime she just does things, wich is nice to know you can focus on getting well and knowing you have someone.... im usually manic like super happy spend do drugs sex with all kinds of woman.... just feel awesome ... like i said be there for him he will def have ups downs ins outs and you will always be there when he needs you.. that will help i promise mom said counseling didnt help just accepting it and realizing it wasnt her fault its genetics and enviroment that cause most of it i am bipolar schiz thats why im on serroquel it seems to help ... but i still have issues good luckBipolar Disorder Support GroupbpcookieInitial Message Posted by: bildo66 Date: Jul 31, 2009.Hey thanks for always being there!!! i mean it when i say snowyowl whitetiger And you have helped me so much!!!! By reading your posts and you all respond to me make me feel like i have got the help i need!!! I hope you r vacation is awsome i miss going on them myself... You will always be pretty cold sore or not lol!!!! last of what should be your worries ha ha just have fun there chic i hope you enjoy everything bout it i wish i could go lol ha ha jk gotta keep the job obtw you are the number one responder other than slik kitty but he or she is like me f it all b ok you sympthisize and understand i like that.... yep alot is misspelled but you get the jist have a great day and enjoy the fn heck out of the vacation!!!!! calling tdoc bef apptcalling tdoc bef apptMessage #4: calling tdoc bef appt P osted by: bildo66 Date: Jul 31, 2009.Hey im freakin out too.... KNow what your going through, let him make the appointment its good to have someone who cares and in the long run it will help you it took me an hour to figure out if i wanted a bacon cheeseburger or shrimp....lol it sucked but i made it through it andf just went with the easy one... ha ha easy is best lol good luckcalling tdoc bef apptMessage #5: calling tdoc bef appt Posted by: hope7951 Date: Jul 31, 2009.Lots of times it helps if you write things down as they happen or better yet get into the habit of keeping a mood/med/event diary that you write in whenever anything happens to you. If you do this for whatever time is between appointments, both you and your pdoc/tdoc can be on the same page and see trends as to what is going on. There are free forms for this on the interenet if you google mood charts. B asically if you write down what meds you take as you take them, anything special that happens to you during the day and your mood on a 1-10 scale plus anything out of the ordinary like your period, alcohol consumption, major stressors, illness, injury, etc. If you do this, you'll find it wil help alot. The white noise, ringing, clicking or even sounds of distant murmuring voices as opposed to clear sounds of recognizable male or female human voices usually of someone you know can come from physical conditions that have nothing to do with psychosis. There are several causes of these symptoms. Go to WebMDs symptom finder and look at ear noises to assess other possible causes, there are several. If one sounds like a match make an appointment with an MD and have this condition corrected. JoyeReasons for Ear NoisesMessage #6: Reasons for Ear Noises Posted by: hope7951 Da te: Jul 31, 2009.A buildup of earwax. Medicines, especially antibiotics or large amounts of aspirin. Drinking an excessive amount of alcohol or caffeinated beverages. Ear infections or eardrum rupture. Dental or other problems affecting the mouth, such as temporomandibular (TM) problems. Injuries, such as whiplash or a direct blow to the ear or head. Injury to the inner ear following surgery or radiation therapy to the head or neck. A rapid change in environmental pressure (barotrauma). Severe weight loss from malnutrition or excessive dieting. Repeated exercise with the neck in a hyperextended position, such as when bicycle riding. Blood flow (vascular) problems, such as carotid atherosclerosis, AV malformations, and high blood pressure (hypertension). Nerve problems (neurologic disorders), such as multiple sclerosis or migraine headache. Other diseases. These may include: Acoustic neuroma. Anemia. Labyrinthitis. Ménière's disease. Otosclerosis. Thyroid disease.Chat room _link_Chat room _link_Message #3: Chat room _link_ Posted by: MelMel1326 Date: Jul 31, 2009.I was just wondering if anyone uses the chat room?Daily Numbers and QuoteDaily Numbers and QuoteMessage #8: Daily Numbers and Quote Posted by: bildo66 Date: Jul 31, 2009.deffinetly 8 cleaned answering posts talking to myself and my girl been on several walks... just all around 8 hugs alldr apptdr apptMessage #1: dr appt Posted by: hope7951 Date: Jul 31, 2009.sounds good. Find out the name. Hugs. Joyedr apptMessage #2: dr appt Posted by: minkysmom1 Date: Jul 31, 2009.Yes please find out the name of the meds.I'm glad your feeling better. Regards, Minkydr apptMessage #3: dr appt Posted by: white_tiger31 Date: Jul 31, 2009.its called an occipital nerve block injection i found this information about it hope this helps http://www.medcentral.org/body.cfm?id=351 hugz and love wendydr apptMessage #4: dr appt Posted by: bildo66 Date: Jul 31, 2009.Great im so happy for you no more pain..... thats wonderful hope it lastsdrinkingdrinkingMessage #6: drinking Posted by: bildo66 Date: Jul 31, 2009.You are deff not horrible i get the same way sometimes... It is not like i dont want to do things with my girl i just kinda need a little helper.... You are right none of us should drink on our pills but thats bipolar drugs and booz makes us feel better than the pills but we all know its not right to do.... just dont become an alcoholic and you should be fine..... or if anything just drink when you want to do things with your man.... Your not a wimp!!!!!!!!!!!!! i am a guy and love to do things to my chic but sometimes i just cant without the helper..... what helps me is to do it as soon as i wake... you being a woman that might be a little harder but you could give it a try... before the day sets in and the moods start to change...drinkingMessage #7: drinking Posted by: slik_kitty Date: Jul 31, 2009.sorry guys, but drinking is not ok, no matter what the reason is behind it. alcohol masks the problems and never solves them. if it is necessary for sex then you have a bigger problem that cannot be solved by alcohol. what you all need is therapy to deal with the problems that drive you to drink. meds do not work when alcohol is involved. so if you are drinking to help the moods and/or sleep, you are only making matters worse, especially when you skip meds just so you can drink. what you need is to get off the alcohol so your meds can work and get into therapy to deal with the reason why you feel the need to drink. it doesn't matter how much you drink. if you cannot stop drinking then you have a drinking problem if not ful l blown alcoholism. it destroys lives and families. if you cannot stop ... read more »
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This is a digest of messages posted to: Bipolar Disorder Support Group.bpcookiebpcookieMessage #1: bpcookie Posted by: slik_kitty Date: Aug 1, 2009.i'm a girl by the way.im homeim homeMessage #5: im home Posted by: snowyowl33 Date: Aug 1, 2009.Welcome home Wendy, take good care of yourself, ok? Snowy just not in the mood. sorry peepsjust not in the mood. sorry peepsMessage #8: just not in the mood. sorry peeps Posted by: snowyowl33 Date: Jul 31, 2009.Cookie monster muffin head!!! awwwwww.... HEY!! no muahing me if you got a big o' cold sore!! ok so we'll do the french "air" kisses on both cheeks... muah muah......lol Take care of yourself, have fun on your vacation, and rellllaaaaxxxxxx.... Hugs SnowyBipolar Disorder Support GroupNeed help with brother in denialInitial Message Posted by: jaschulz1 Date: Aug 1, 2009.Hi there - for years we (my parents and I) have been dealing with my brother who (_base_d on all I have read, people I have talked to and the experiences we have had), has bipolar disorder. He won't even hear of it when I have mentioned it in the past (Long ago as that didn't go over well) and _base_d on court order from two separate incidences has met with two different pyschologists - WHO DID NOT HELP or diagnose him. The last psychologist asked him what his parents were like and according to my brother told him he is a victim of the perfect storm (my dad being an engineer and my mom being a perfectionist)...what the hell is that????? I am verging on desperate as he is becoming more and more physically abusi ve to my parents during his mania (last episode was last week Sunday and thankfully my mom told me) but they are scared and don't want to 'ruin his life' by getting the authorities involved. I am 2.5 hours away and don't have any idea how to help him understand that he could feel and be so much better if he took ownership of this disease...there are so many dynamics that I could type for hours - I don't know where to turn first - can someone help or guide me? Thanks so much - JoView all discussions at DepressionUse the unsubscribe form to cancel your email sub_script_ion.
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This is a digest of messages posted to: Bipolar Disorder Support Group.bpcookiebpcookieMessage #2: bpcookie Posted by: bpcookie Date: Aug 1, 2009.aaaaawwwww Bildo, how very sweet of you. I think I will put alot of lip stick on my lip to cover the cold sore, or perhaps I will have the pics taken of my back side instead. hehehe I think I can fit you into one of my suit cases. Your welcomed to come along, more the merrier. Peace and love to you CookieBipolar Disorder Support GroupCan't enjoy it (may trigger)Initial Message Po sted by: 8inthehed Date: Aug 1, 2009.No matter how hard I try, I sometimes have trouble having an orgasm. I don't know if it's my meds. or something else. It only takes hubby about 5 min or so to get his, and I'm left stranded. He tries foreplay and other stuff to get me close to that point, but honestly it doesn't. It's like it's numb down there. Talking about sex is not something I am very comfortable with, especially trying to tell him what to do during..Iknow..bad. The whole thing makes me uncomfortable. Would therapy maybe help? or should I try different meds? or just live with it.Can't enjoy it (may trigger)Can't enjoy it (may trigger)Message #1: Can't enjoy it (may trigger) Posted by: minkysmom1 Date: Aug 1, 2009.Hi there, There are types of meds that definitely impact the libido in a huge way. Whether you are on one or not I don't know since you don't mention kinds of meds you are taking. The SSRI meds (antidep.) can do it but everyone is different. I experienced what you speak of for years til my meds got worked out. As far as "talking about sex" try not to look at it that way. So much is put upon "talking about sex" that we avoid it at all costs when really it's no big deal to talk about it. I mean were having sex right?So we should be talking about it with our SO's. Your husband knows you are not orgasming so why not intimately chat with him. Don't just settle or "live with it",that's your husband and he wants you to be happy and in a fulfilling lovelife with him.He Loves you and will ebrace you letting him know what is happening. As for a med change make an appt. and do it soon. There are meds that don't always have that effect on people. Ask your Doc..Tell him exactly what is happening. I know it's embarrasing but it will get easier. Remember,you are going to be treating this disease for a long time,why not get it right and start enjoying the love life you deserve and your husband wants you to have. Regards,MinkyCan't enjoy it (may trigger)Message #2: Can't enjoy it (may trigger) Posted by: bpcookie Date: Aug 1, 2009.8inthehed, oh sweetie, Ive been there before. Its prob. your darn meds. Are you on an anti depressant? Here is what happened to me. I had a very healthy sex drive before I got on Bipolar meds. I was put on Depakote and an anti depressant and my sex drive went down hill. Orgasms were a thing of the pasts. 8 yrs of hating sex. Then I was taken off the anti depressant and I got totally hyper sexual, I went the other way, I couldnt get enough. Then once again the Dr. put me on an anti depressant and it brought my sex drive down a bit, and I finally feel normal. Its most likely caused by your meds. Talk to your pdoc and dont take any crap from him. All my pdocs kept telling me was "yes, bipolar meds can cause prob. with your sex life" they acted like it was no big deal. There are other meds you can try. Have your pdoc switch meds untill your orgasms come back. Dont let your dr. tell you that you have to suffer, because that is total b.s. If it was your dr. going through this, you better believe he wouldnt suffer. So put your foot down honey, kick the pdoc in the rear and have your meds switched up untill you find the right ones to help your bipolar and bring your orgasms back. hugs CookieCan't enjoy it (may trigger)Message #3: Can't enjoy it (may trigger) Posted by: bpcookie Date: Aug 1, 2009.Oh I wanted to add, maybe untill you get this sexual issue delt with, you can get yourself a toy (if you know what I mean) Have your husband use it on you and see if that helps. That way your not left hanging. Good luck to you.just not in the mood. sorry peepsjust not in the mood. sorry peepsMessage #9: just not in the mood. sorry peeps Posted by: bpcookie Date: Aug 1, 2009.Snowy, LMAO re French air kisses? what is that? LOL As for my cold sore, I share everything with my friends. hugskinda freakin maybe????kinda freakin maybe????Message #3: kinda freakin maybe???? Posted by: 8inthehed Date: Aug 1, 2009.I know how those days can be. Feel like jumping ou of your skin. It's good that you have support at home.Some don't. As far as mes, I feel bad asking for charity too, but I have to if I want to stay sane. I can't get help from the pharmacys, but I'm always asking doc for samples. The worst thing I hate to do is ask my mom for help with co-pays and meds, but I do it anyways. Hubby figures she owes it too me after all the crap she put me through. Hope you get to a "normal" spot so you can relax a bit.kinda freakin maybe????Messa ge #4: kinda freakin maybe???? Posted by: bpcookie Date: Aug 1, 2009.Hey Bildo, I drink too much coffee myself, and I always feel like Wonder Woman after wards. I sometimes feel like a burden myself, so I understand what your going through. Just remember that we have a mental illness and we cant help how we feel 24/7. Im glad your a little nutty, you fit right in. Speaking of nutty, have you ever just wanted to freak someone out, like your family or perhaps your friends, or those ppl who think Bipolars are crazy? One day I would love to run up to one of ppl, get in there face and say "boogity boogity boogity" then run around in a circle and tell them I see little Christina Agralera's running around and then eat some coffee grounds. Now that should freak them out. Well hun, I hope you ha ve a great day. huggers to you CookieView all discussions at Bipolar Disorder Support GroupUse the unsubscribe form to cancel your email sub_script_ion.
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