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Adult Children of Alcoholics |
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Written by Administrator
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Saturday, 01 August 2009 |
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Many of us know that we have much in common as a result of growth in the alcoholic home. We started to feel the isolation, difficulty in dealing with people, in particular with the authorities. To protect themselves, heedless of the order to please others, even at the expense of perdition of our own identity. And yet we treat any criticism as a threat. Lived as a victim.
We learned to deny our feelings as a child and do not show them as adults. As a result does not distinguish between the love of mercy, seeking to love those we can help. A focus on defense, addicted from standing tensions in all our cases, submitting the continuing failure of the beneficial compounds. This is a description, not the prosecution ... solution is that to be the same for very loving parent. Through regular meeting going to reach the correct understanding of parental alcoholism - a disease that you caught when you were a child and still affects you in life. When you accept the concept of the disease, look at their parents and to each other as . Learn to focus on the "here and now," unleash the shame and accusations, which are remains of the past. Take responsibility for their own lives into their own hands and learn how better to be its parent. There you will have to do it alone. Look around and you will see men and women who know exactly how you feel. We know because we were all there. We love and support you regardless of everything. We want you as our adopted brothers and sisters, as we have already accepted you. We look at our biological parents as those who existence. Our parent is a true force majeure, we want to be called our God. God gave us life and God gave us the parents of alcoholics, it also gave us the twelve steps. We use the twelve steps, share experience, strength and hope. This work allows us to say goodbye to our weaknesses and the patient's thinking. Release our parents from responsibility for our behavior today and in doing so gain the freedom of making healthy decisions. It is a spiritual program of action based on love. We are sure that while you love will grow, you change look beautiful in all their relationships, especially with your parents, your God, and the same. |
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Last Updated ( Thursday, 06 August 2009 )
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